My traditional trip to the graves with my mother, we always have a great time.
My niece died a few days after birth. Every time we visit her grave we put a flowers and a pinwheel. When we talk to her it spins and then stops. If you say something it starts, when we got in the car it abruptly stopped. Mom and I both are moved by it.
I got my lost money check replaced and deposited it for my visa payment, that helps.